“her name is Lizzy. she makes everything easy. she takes most of things easy – not to underestimate it, but only a more relax approach towards problems.
she has black and glazed eyes, a typical of Asian woman.
her shoulder-length short hair has taken my attention from the very first time we met.
she has her own fashion style, as well as lovely personality, a unique one among the homogenous society where we live in. I know she is different, in a positive way.
she is not tall, and maybe a bit thin, but she has a huge heart.
she is talkative, she tells me everything about her and her story, while I’m listening carefully with a smile and sometimes a big laugh since we are in tune and we have the same taste of jokes.
good story or bad story, there is no gap between them because the struggling time had taught her to accept and be peaceful with what she had been through.
while I tend to overthink something, she simplifies the complicated, and makes fun of something troublesome, which in turn makes me feel relax and be more confident.
she brings balance and complements me. somehow we are connected, my feeling said.
she introduces me to a whole new world that I never know before.
her existence has inspired and encouraged me.
“I’m no one’s favorite“, she described herself, without knowing she’s my favorite.
she tends to undervalue herself when everybody else overvalue themselves.
I can tell how the struggle she’d faced had shaped her kind-hearted and sincere-support traits.
she likes to nurture almost everything. she has her own small yet orderly garden, a girl with aesthetic taste. also, she organized her mini library full of books properly. she never skip a month without reading books.
she nurtures our relationship with loyalty and compassion.
sometimes, while I’m not explicitly saying my concerns, our connected mind have spoken it loudly and made a deal correspondingly. she has an aspiration to open an integrated business based on what she likes, a conceptual mini restaurant. I totally support her business as she supports me entirely with my job and my career. she’s never blinded by her ambitions, like I said, she makes everything easy.
she lives her life passionately, which is what I also admired most from her.
she may not be super smart, but she knows how to treat others and adjust to circumstances – yes, she is intellect. she may not be super rich, but for her, a sufficient revenue is enough for materialism is not on her priority list. she may not be the most beautiful girl in town, she may not possess multi talents or skills, but she knows what she likes, what she wants and what she has to do with her life, without bringing any harmful to anyone surrounding her. instead, her inspiring thought and acts has actually brought much benefits for others, including me.
she is enough, I am enough, we are enough for each other.
when I come back home from work, she is already sitting in the sofa, eagerly waiting for me with two cup of teas in the table, and continuing our never-ending intriguing discussion.
we live on easy street, not overly, neither lacking.
her words never hurt me, even once. when we argued, we communicated with understanding and be mindful with our words.
I know we may not undergo a constantly happy moments in our relationship, but I know for sure that whatever happens will only bring us together and grow in convergence as unity.
our story never threat each other, I am sincerely glad to know every single story she told me, and so is she.
we celebrate and be grateful for the success story during our journey in happy times, and remind each other, maintain and strengthen in times of trouble.
we never cease to pray for each other, support with any kind of help we can do to each other.
we have the same level of concern on faith, we worship together and sharing our contemplations about verses. we grow together in faith.
we know we have a limit lifetime together so we have dealt to cherish every moment together, value our time more than money.
we agree to get to the point with proper communication and leave useless dramas.
she makes me saying, “I have found what I’m looking for!” and celebrating it with a bunch of joyful.
she is nearly perfect – if there is no perfect human in the surface of the earth.”
“I see. maybe, she has all you want – or even need – from a girl to be your partner in romantic relationship. you describe her a bit specific as if she was real.
but, she is not real, eh? only exists in your ideal thought. maybe you are confused.
there is no perfection under the sun, you know that, so take it properly and manage it well.
now, get yourself together and take what you need, including courage, and be on your way, go ahead and focus on your path.
face the world with kindness and sincerity in your heart and behavior. be joyful in your journey, since it is the last thing you might desire while you are under the sun!”
hope. 